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There’s more to safe sex than using protection. Safe sex also involves knowing how to take care of yourself as a sexually active person. And one of the simplest things you can do for your body after sex is to, well, pee. It’s a small action that might feel like an afterthought. But it can make a huge difference!

Ah, the joy of a kiss. Many a song has been sung about it, and many a poem transcribed. But what, really, is behind a great kiss? Let’s explore this pleasurable act a bit more and discover just why it’s an essential part of our sexual health and wellness.

If you’re self-conscious about your breasts, you’re not alone. However, you don’t have to feel that way. Easier said than done, right?Body image is a challenge for people of all genders. But for women and people with breasts? We’ve been through the wringer. We hold unrealistic expectations of ourselves, our bodies, and our boobs. And we hold these expectations because we think that they’re required of us.The good news is, nothing is required of our boobs. The bad news is, it can be tough to truly learn this lesson. But it helps to trace our shame and insecurity back to its source. Where did we learn that our body isn’t enough as it is? 

Massages are great for improving nonverbal communication as a couple: it strengthens our confidence, breaks the sense of monotony (especially common to long-term relationships), and awakens sensations within us that bring us closer to achieving those intense orgasms. Ohhh, baby! Here are some tips for both giving and receiving the perfect sensual massage that’ll make you feel closer and more connected than ever before.

Menstrual cups have become all the rage lately. As a low-cost, eco-friendly alternative to tampons and pads, they’re a great option for today’s environment-conscious woman or person with a period. But they can also seem intimidating to use if you’ve never tried them. Maybe you’re afraid it won’t work, or worried about using them wrong. Don’t worry––we’ve got you covered! Read up for some tips and tricks on how to use this newfound trend in the world of period products.

What comes to mind when you hear the word ‘seduction’? Perhaps you think of a cougar type femme fatale? Buying a stranger a drink across a crowded bar? Rose petals on a lover’s bed? Or a full outfit of latex with accompanying whips and handcuffs to put a ‘spark’ back into a long term partnership?

During the pandemic lockdown, we've learned a lot about our own sexual desires. Masturbation has become a best friend for those of us stuck at home. But where do we go from here? How do we start dating again, or renew our relationships?

Endometriosis has a huge impact on not only your sex life but your sexuality as a whole. Pain during or after sex is one of the most common symptoms of endometriosis, and it can have a lasting effect on your mental health. Not everyone experiences pain during sex, but those who do feel it in a variety of ways. It can range from dull and mild to sharp and excruciating. And for anyone, the experience can be so discouraging. ‍

We’ve talked about pleasure inequality, but in this article we’re going deeper, with the facts, the figures, and the one thing we need to do to hit the ground running and close the orgasm gap once and for all.

Why is it hard to understand the difference between gender and sex? Perhaps it’s because your gender is assigned at birth based on the appearance of your sex organs, so it’s easy to think that they’re one and the same. Gender Is A Spectrum

Period pain and pain during sex are common symptoms of endometriosis.

It’s International Women’s Day (IWD) again, the day where the world comes together to celebrate the “social, economic, cultural and political achievements of women.”

The vulva and the vagina are not the same, and here’s why.

You may not have had penetrative sex, but that doesn’t mean you haven’t had sex. Think about it: have you experienced sexual pleasure before? Have you masturbated? Fooled around? Okay, then you’ve had sex. 

Sex negative messages may be holding your arousal hostage. It stops here.

So for this year, we recommend a different approach: throw out the resolutions and commit to the one thing that truly matters––self-love.

Here at Emjoy, our goal is to improve your self-care practices and self-esteem by providing passionate stories that help you gain confidence, tune into your body’s needs and desires, and get in the mood. 

While it’s true that we associate certain foods with arousal, the concept that consuming something directly kickstarts sexual desire is not scientifically proven. Learn what an aphrodisiac food is and if they really set the mood or if it's all in our minds.

Join us for a tour of the female sex organs; you’re about to be mesmerized

What's the difference between polyamorous and pansexual? Let us explain!

Our top 5 picks for some saucy watching, made with you in mind.