Emjoy’s Journal

What You Should Know About Period Sex

The Emjoy Team

Discover more about period sex as well as finding out 5 handy tips for making it mess-free and super enjoyable.

How to Close the Pleasure Gap – 7 Tips for More Pleasure Equity

The Emjoy Team

Discover 7 powerful steps you can take to close the pleasure gap for more pleasure equity this International Women’s Day and every day!

How to Have a Threesome (In Real Life)

The Emjoy Team

Want to turn your fantasy into a reality? Find out how to have a threesome that’s both safe and enjoyable, according to a sex therapist.

The Importance of Foreplay

The Emjoy Team

How much time do you spend on foreplay? For most people, it’s probably not enough. Read on to discover its many benefits and why you really shouldn’t neglect this important part of sex.

What are Erogenous Zones?

The Emjoy Team

No doubt you’ve heard about those pleasure hot spots called erogenous zones. But what are they exactly, where can you find them and are they the same for everyone? Read on to find out.

7 Benefits of Using Lube During Sex

The Emjoy Team

Lube isn’t just for postmenopausal women or anal sex. Discover seven ways you can benefit from using lube, no matter your life stage or sexual activity.

5 Self-Love Habits to Boost your Health, Happiness and Self-Esteem

The Emjoy Team

Give yourself some more TLC with these five self-love habits to improve your health, happiness and self-esteem.

5 Common Fetishes and Kinks to Explore

The Emjoy Team

Want to try something new to expand your sexual repertoire? Then how about spicing up your sex life with these common fetishes and kinks?

10 Hot Tips for Steamy Shower Sex

The Emjoy Team

Want to have sex that’s (quite literally) hot and steamy? Experience the joys of shower sex with these ten hot tips.

Am I A People Pleaser?

The Emjoy Team

Would you or others describe yourself as a people pleaser? Read on to find out the signs of people pleasing and some of the motivations behind these behaviors.

8 Sex Resolutions for a Healthier and More Fulfilling Sex Life

The Emjoy Team

Sexual wellness is a key pillar of our wellbeing, so this year we invite you to commit to at least one of these eight sex resolutions for a healthier and more fulfilling sex life.

5 Surprising Health Benefits of Orgasms

The Emjoy Team

Did you know that aside from feeling, like, really, really good, there are actually several health benefits of orgasms? Read on to find out what they are.

What’s Emotional Regulation and How Can You Develop it?

The Emjoy Team

What’s emotional regulation, why is it important and how can you develop it? Read on to find out and learn some simple and effective techniques to act in a more calm and dignified way.

12 Hot Foreplay Ideas for Better Sex

The Emjoy Team

Discover twelve hot foreplay ideas to heat things up in the bedroom.

Multiple Orgasms: Can All Women Have Them?

The Emjoy Team

What are multiple orgasms? What's so good about them? Can all women have them? What about men? Read on to find out all this and more.

10 Tips for a Clean Vagina and Vulva

The Emjoy Team

Maintaining a clean vagina and vulva should be simple, but there are plenty of mainstream cleaning practices which can do more harm than good. So keep reading to learn the dos and don’ts of vaginal hygiene.

How To Give Great Handjobs

The Emjoy Team

Discover 5 secrets to giving great handjobs to become a pleasure pro and give your man the time of his life!

Solo Sex Ideas for Female Pleasure

The Emjoy Team

Do you always masturbate in the same way? Would you like to enjoy different types of orgasms but don’t know where to start? Then get inspired by these ten solo sex ideas for female pleasure.

5 Blowjob Techniques to Blow Their Mind

The Emjoy Team

There’s more to giving amazing oral sex than first meets the eye. So learn how to become a pleasure pro with these 5 mind-blowing blowjob techniques that’ll leave your partner begging for more!

How Does Your Mental Health Affect Intimacy?

The Emjoy Team

Your mental health, sexual health, and intimacy are all intertwined in the ball of feelings, desires, past relationships, and experiences that make you, you. Read on to find how mental health can have an impact on intimacy in your relationships.

How to Enjoy Sex After Menopause: 5 Tips for a Better Sex Life

The Emjoy Team

Sex after menopause can be challenging. Read on to discover hot to increase your sex drive and have more comfortable and enjoyable sex after menopause.

What's a Blended Orgasm and How Can You Have One?

The Emjoy Team

What’s a blended orgasm and how can you have one? Read on to find out.

Abortion Pills: What You Need to Know

The Emjoy Team

Abortion pills are used in the majority of abortions in the United States. But how do they work? What are the benefits and disadvantages? How much do they cost? And where can you get them? Continue reading to find out.

5 Kinky Sex Ideas to Spice Up Your Sex Life

The Emjoy Team

Check out Emjoy's 5 kinky sex ideas to spice up your sex life today!

The Pros and Cons of Female Condoms

The Emjoy Team

If you’re reassessing your contraception options, you might consider female condoms. But what exactly are female condoms? How do they work? And what are the pros and cons? Read on to find out.

New Sex Techniques: Edging

The Emjoy Team

Would you like to learn a new sex technique to spice things up between the sheets and intensify your orgasms at the same time? Then you need to discover edging, baby!

Sexual Health 101: 6 Powerful Ways to Improve Your Sexual Wellbeing

The Emjoy Team

You probably already know a lot of things you can do to improve your physical and mental health, but what about your sexual health? Read on to discover 6 powerful ways to improve your sexual wellbeing.

How to Help a Partner with Erectile Dysfunction

The Emjoy Team

You’ll be able to overcome ED more quickly and effectively if you work as a team, so read on to discover 8 ways to help a partner with erectile dysfunction.

Non-Penetrative Sex Ideas for Women

The Emjoy Team

Because sex isn't all about penetration, in fact, it doesn't require penetration at all, we want to inspire you with these 5 non-penetrative sex ideas for female orgasm you can enjoy alone or with a partner.

How to Squirt: A Beginner's Guide

The Emjoy Team

Can all women squirt? What is it? Where does it come from? Find out how to squirt and much more in this beginner's guide.

5 Myths about Female Orgasm, Busted

The Emjoy Team

Is female orgasm harder to achieve than male orgasm? Should women be able to orgasm from penetration alone? Find out all this and more in 5 myths about female orgasm, busted.

Breastfeeding and Sex: How Lactation can Affect your Sex Life

The Emjoy Team

Let's take a look and how breastfeeding and sex fit together. You’re (quite literally) in for some thrills and spills!

How to Do Wax Play Safely

The Emjoy Team

It’s time to turn the temperature up with a bit of wax play! But hold your horses you kinky devil! Before you go lighting that scented candle that’s been collecting dust on your bedside table for years, save yourself a trip to A&E and learn how to do wax play safely.

5 Hot BDSM Ideas For Beginners

The Emjoy Team

BDSM is a great way to spice things up in the bedroom, but where to begin? Get started with these 5 hot BDSM ideas for beginners that don’t require you to build your own sex dungeon.

Orgasm Anxiety: Symptoms, Causes and How to Overcome it

The Emjoy Team

If you get anxious about climaxing, perhaps because you feel you take too long to cum, or you stress about being able to cum at all, you could be suffering from orgasm anxiety.

What's the Difference Between Female Ejaculation and Squirting?

The Emjoy Team

Are female ejaculation and squirting the same? Isn’t squirting during sex the same as peeing? Read on to find out the answers.

New Sex Techniques: Shallowing

The Emjoy Team

Looking to spice things up in the bedroom? Want to try something new in your next masturbation session? Then let us walk you through a sex technique you might not have heard of before: shallowing.

How Sexy Stories Can Increase Your Libido

The Emjoy Team

Why do I never want to have sex? Do I have a low sex drive? If you’ve ever asked yourself these questions, you’ll know how frustrating it can be to deal with a low desire.

What's 69ing? A Beginner's Guide to the 69 Sex Position

The Emjoy Team

What's 69ing? What's so good about it? And how can you do it well? Find our more about the 69 sex position in this beginner's guide. Mutual pleasure, here we come!

Anorgasmia: Why Women Struggle to Reach Orgasm

The Emjoy Team

Studies suggest that anorgasmia (persistent difficulties orgasming) affects between 11 to 41% of women worldwide.

How to Touch Yourself: 10 Sex Techniques for Female Orgasm

The Emjoy Team

To celebrate International Masturbation Month we’re sharing 10 sexy ideas about how to touch yourself to achieve orgasm and feel great.

10 Hot Ideas for Breast Play and Nipplegasms

The Emjoy Team

Read on to discover ten sexy ways to touch your (or a partner's) breasts and nipples. Happy exploring!

How Jealousy Affects Us and How To Cope

The Emjoy Team

We all feel a little jealous from time to time. It’s human nature. But when is jealousy justified and when does it become harmful?

Pain During Sex: The Causes and What to Do About It

The Emjoy Team

Have you ever experienced pain during sex? Perhaps discomfort during penetration or a burning or stinging sensation? If so, you’re not alone.

4 Breast Cancer Myths Debunked

The Emjoy Team

Can wearing a bra cause breast cancer? Are antiperspirants harmful? Let’s separate fact from fiction by debunking some of the most common breast cancer myths.

Virginity is a Social Construct

The Emjoy Team

Let’s set something straight. Virginity isn’t something you “lose.” No cherry pops, no seal is broken, no jewel is lost forever. So the question is: what is virginity, then? Read on to discover why virginity is a social construct.

Why Your G-Spot Is Not A “Spot” At All And Why It Matters

The Emjoy Team

Who doesn’t love a magic button? I mean c’mon, microwaves anyone? Say hello to the G-spot!

Here’s Why You Should Always Pee After Sex

The Emjoy Team

Safe sex also involves knowing how to take care of yourself as a sexually active person. And one of the simplest things you can do for your body is to always pee after sex.

How To Accept Your Body (Even If You Don’t Love It)

The Emjoy Team

Learning to accept your body is easier said than done. We don’t always feel positive. And that’s okay. But we can strive to accept our bodies, most of the time anyway.

Increase your arousal: 10 ways to get turned on more often

The Emjoy Team

Would you like to increase your arousal? Then read on to discover 10 simple ways to get turned on more often.

The Best Sex Toy For You: A Complete Guide

The Emjoy Team

To narrow it down before you drop hard-earned cash on a brand new toy, it’s good to consider what your body prefers, and how you’ll use the toy.

5 Myths About Menstruation You Might Still Believe

The Emjoy Team

We’ve all heard at least one myth about our periods. With so much misinformation out there, we don’t blame you, it can be confusing to distinguish truth from fiction.

The Anatomy of the Vulva

The Emjoy Team

Each one of us is beautiful and unique. But, for those of us with a vulva and a vagina, physically we all have the same anatomical parts and functions. And yet, there’s so much we don’t know, or weren’t taught in Sex Ed about women's anatomy.

How To Feel Confident About Your Breasts Every Day

The Emjoy Team

If you’ve ever been worried your boobs don’t look like the ones on social media or in the movies, you’re not alone. Holding unrealistic expectations of ourselves is not doing any of us any good.

3 Ways to Spice Up Your Sex Life When Routine Gets in the Way

The Emjoy Team

When life gets busy, it’s easy to fall into certain routines, sexual or otherwise, and it can be hard to break them.

The Signs of Domestic Abuse

The Emjoy Team

Trigger warning: abuse. Abuse can take on many different forms, often making it hard to clearly define what’s going on. In this blog we’ll take you through some of the warning signs that might help you to identify if you, or someone you know, is experiencing abuse.

Everything you need to know about Emjoy’s latest update

The Emjoy Team

Your pleasure is personal, and we want to acknowledge that by personalizing your app experience even more, based on your unique needs.

Happy Pride! LGBQT+ Quiz Results Are In

The Emjoy Team

At Emjoy we celebrate all people, and our community does too! We challenged you to an LGBQT+ Quiz and as per usual, you didn’t disappoint! We’re so proud of everyone in our community.

6 Fun Facts About Kissing

The Emjoy Team

Ah, the joy of a kiss. Many a song has been sung about it, and many a poem transcribed. But what, really, is behind a great kiss? Let’s explore this pleasurable act a bit more and discover just why it’s an essential part of our sexual health and wellness.

Masturbation 101: What do You Know about Masturbation?

The Emjoy Team

The results are in! We had you test your knowledge in our Masturbation Quiz and damn, you guys really know your stuff.

How to Give and Receive the Perfect Sensual Massage

The Emjoy Team

Massages are great for improving nonverbal communication as a couple. Ohhh, baby! Here are some tips for both giving and receiving the perfect sensual massage.

Thinking of Trying a Menstrual Cup? Here Are Some Tips

The Emjoy Team

As a low-cost, eco-friendly alternative, menstrual cups are a great option for today’s environment-conscious woman or person with a period.

Seduction, not as scary or cheesy as it sounds

The Emjoy Team

What comes to mind when you hear the word ‘seduction’? Perhaps you think of a cougar type femme fatale? Rose petals on a lover’s bed?

The Health Benefits of Masturbation

The Emjoy Team

That’s right! Research shows that masturbation has a positive effect on your physical and physiological health.

It’s been a year since lockdown—What happens next?

The Emjoy Team

During the pandemic lockdown, masturbation has become a best friend. But where do we go from here?

Masturbation Is Self-Care

The Emjoy Team

May is National Masturbation Month and there couldn’t be a better way to fight the stigma about solo sex than devoting an entire month to celebrating the art of getting it on with yourself. Masturbation is self-care after all.

Is Endometriosis Affecting Your Sex Life? You’re Not Alone

The Emjoy Team

Endometriosis has a huge impact on not only your sex life but your sexuality as a whole. Pain during or after sex is one of the most common symptoms of endometriosis.

All About Anal: Your Introduction to Anal Play and Anal Sex (Part II)

The Emjoy Team

In this article, we’ll go deeper with self-exploration, non-penetrative anal options, as well as why it’s OK to be not just a receiver but a giver.

The orgasm gap: facts, figures, and why we need to talk about female pleasure.

The Emjoy Team

In this article, we’re going deeper, with the facts, the figures, and the one thing we need to close the orgasm gap once and for all.

All About Anal: Your Introduction to Anal Play and Anal Sex (Part I)

The Emjoy Team

You’ve heard people talk about it. You’ve read a bit about it. Maybe you even know someone who’s done it and enjoyed it.

Gender vs. Sex: What’s The Difference?

The Emjoy Team

Why is it hard to understand gender vs. sex? Read on to discover the difference between the two terms.

Why Penetrative Sex Might Be Causing You Pain

The Emjoy Team

Let’s set the record straight: sex is to be enjoyed. Sex is for pleasure; it is not supposed to hurt. If it does, there’s usually a reason why. And most of the time it’s something that can be fixed!

Endometriosis Is Way More Common Than You Think

The Emjoy Team

Period pain and pain during sex are common symptoms of endometriosis.

This International Women’s Day, We #ChooseToChallenge Pleasure Inequality

Emjoy Team

The day where the world comes together to celebrate the “social, economic, cultural and political achievements of women.”

All about the vulva: What is it, where is it, and why it’s not the same as the vagina.

The Emjoy Team

The vulva and the vagina are not the same, and here’s why.

How To Spice It Up Without Turning Your Garage Into A Dungeon: A Simple Woman’s Guide

The Emjoy Team

You can breathe new life into your relationship.

Valentine’s Day Ideas for Singles, Couples, and the Socially Distanced

The Emjoy Team

Valentine’s day ideas 2021 during Covid and quarantine era with Emjoy

Dating during quarantine: 10 tips for socially distanced dates

The Emjoy Team

The ultimate guide to successful socially distanced dating.

Never Had Penetrative Sex Before? Read This.

The Emjoy Team

You may not have had penetrative sex, but that doesn’t mean you haven’t had sex. Think about it: have you experienced sexual pleasure before? Have you masturbated? Then you’ve had sex.

How to Overcome Sexual Shame with Sex Positivity

The Emjoy Team

Sex negative messages may be holding your arousal hostage. It stops here. Learn how to start overcoming sexual shame and embrace sex positivity today.

Ditch Your Typical New Year’s Resolutions—Embrace Self-Love Instead

The Emjoy Team

Try a new approach to New Year's resolutions and commit to the one thing that truly matters––self-love.

What is Audio Erotica?

The Emjoy Team

What's audio erotica? What's the difference between erotica and porn? What are its benefits over visual porn? Read on to find out.

Sexual Fantasy and Role Play

The Emjoy Team

Sexual fantasies. We’ve all had them, or at least heard about them. But how common are they? What’s considered normal? Should you act on them? Read on to find out more and learn how to make your fantasies come to life with role play.

BDSM For Beginners

The Emjoy Team

What does BDSM stand for? What does it involve? Find out all this and more in BDSM for beginners.

The 5 Best Sex Positions for Female Orgasm

The Emjoy Team

The best sex positions for female orgasm are usually the ones that either apply natural pressure to the clitoris or leave your or your partner’s hands free to roam and touch. Read on to find out more.

Aphrodisiacs: Can Food Get You in The Mood?

The Emjoy Team

We associate certain foods with arousal, but can food directly kickstart our sexual desire? Learn what an aphrodisiac food is and if it really sets the mood.

Vulvas, Vaginas, Clits, and Butts: The Definitive Guide To The Female Anatomy

The Emjoy Team

Join us for a tour of the female anatomy: vulvas, vaginas, clits and butts incoming!

Can Vibrators be Bad for You? Advice from a Sex Therapist.

Mia Sabat

Can vibrators desensitize you? Can you become addicted to sex toys? Are vibrators bad for you? Mia Sabat, Emjoy's in-house sex therapist, reveals all.

International Female Orgasm Day

The Emjoy Team

Mark it in your calendar and forget about your plan to go to the gym tonight! It’s International Female Orgasm Day, y’all! Ohhhh yes!

How to Sext (and Not Cringe)

The Emjoy Team

Sexting is a skill. A finely crafted skill that requires practice and sometimes very careful consideration. Find out how to sext like pro in this article.

How to Send Nudes Safely

The Emjoy Team

Nudes. It seems like only a few years ago that we were experiencing near-constant leaks of celebrity nudes. Find out how to send nudes safely in Emjoy's ultimate guide.

What to Do When You and Your Partner have Mismatched Libidos

The Emjoy Team

Is it a problem if you and your partner don't agree on how often to have sex? Discover more about mismatched libidos and what you can do about it.

Setting Boundaries During Sex

The Emjoy Team

Setting boundaries during sex is not only healthy - it’s hot. Have you ever had a conversation about what you want, don’t want and what your boundaries are before you have sex with someone?

Beautiful, Erotic Cinema that’s Not for the Male Gaze

The Emjoy Team

Visual stimulation is important for your sex drive. Discover our top 5 picks of erotic cinema, made with you in mind.

Just a girl? Your Guide to (some) Terms for Gender and Sexuality

The Emjoy Team

What's the difference between polyamorous and pansexual? Transgender and transsexual? Discover the meaning of some key terms in this article.

Ten Instagram Erotic Artists to Boost Your Sex Drive

The Emjoy Team

Looking at beautiful erotic images is a fantastic way to increase your libido. With that in mind we're sharing ten Instagram erotic artists to get you in the mood!

You’re my Aphrodisiac: Does “Female Viagra” work?

The Emjoy Team

Does female viagra actually work? Research shows that pills designed to increase a woman's sex drive are actually as effective as a placebo. Find out more in this article.

What’s the Difference between Desire and Arousal?

The Emjoy Team

Understanding your sex drive doesn't need to be complicated. In this article we discover what differentiates desire and arousal.

Emjoy Academy

What You Should Know About Period Sex

How to Close the Pleasure Gap – 7 Tips for More Pleasure Equity

How to Have a Threesome (In Real Life)

The Importance of Foreplay

What are Erogenous Zones?

7 Benefits of Using Lube During Sex

5 Self-Love Habits to Boost your Health, Happiness and Self-Esteem

5 Common Fetishes and Kinks to Explore

10 Hot Tips for Steamy Shower Sex

Am I A People Pleaser?

8 Sex Resolutions for a Healthier and More Fulfilling Sex Life

5 Surprising Health Benefits of Orgasms

What’s Emotional Regulation and How Can You Develop it?

12 Hot Foreplay Ideas for Better Sex

Multiple Orgasms: Can All Women Have Them?

10 Tips for a Clean Vagina and Vulva

How To Give Great Handjobs

Solo Sex Ideas for Female Pleasure

5 Blowjob Techniques to Blow Their Mind

How Does Your Mental Health Affect Intimacy?

How to Enjoy Sex After Menopause: 5 Tips for a Better Sex Life

What's a Blended Orgasm and How Can You Have One?

Abortion Pills: What You Need to Know

5 Kinky Sex Ideas to Spice Up Your Sex Life

The Pros and Cons of Female Condoms

New Sex Techniques: Edging

Sexual Health 101: 6 Powerful Ways to Improve Your Sexual Wellbeing

How to Help a Partner with Erectile Dysfunction

Non-Penetrative Sex Ideas for Women

How to Squirt: A Beginner's Guide

5 Myths about Female Orgasm, Busted

Breastfeeding and Sex: How Lactation can Affect your Sex Life

How to Do Wax Play Safely

5 Hot BDSM Ideas For Beginners

Orgasm Anxiety: Symptoms, Causes and How to Overcome it

What's the Difference Between Female Ejaculation and Squirting?

New Sex Techniques: Shallowing

How Sexy Stories Can Increase Your Libido

What's 69ing? A Beginner's Guide to the 69 Sex Position

Anorgasmia: Why Women Struggle to Reach Orgasm

How to Touch Yourself: 10 Sex Techniques for Female Orgasm

10 Hot Ideas for Breast Play and Nipplegasms

How Jealousy Affects Us and How To Cope

Pain During Sex: The Causes and What to Do About It

4 Breast Cancer Myths Debunked

Virginity is a Social Construct

Why Your G-Spot Is Not A “Spot” At All And Why It Matters

Here’s Why You Should Always Pee After Sex

How To Accept Your Body (Even If You Don’t Love It)

Increase your arousal: 10 ways to get turned on more often

The Best Sex Toy For You: A Complete Guide

5 Myths About Menstruation You Might Still Believe

The Anatomy of the Vulva

How To Feel Confident About Your Breasts Every Day

3 Ways to Spice Up Your Sex Life When Routine Gets in the Way

The Signs of Domestic Abuse

Everything you need to know about Emjoy’s latest update

Happy Pride! LGBQT+ Quiz Results Are In

6 Fun Facts About Kissing

Masturbation 101: What do You Know about Masturbation?

How to Give and Receive the Perfect Sensual Massage

Thinking of Trying a Menstrual Cup? Here Are Some Tips

Seduction, not as scary or cheesy as it sounds

The Health Benefits of Masturbation

It’s been a year since lockdown—What happens next?

Masturbation Is Self-Care

Is Endometriosis Affecting Your Sex Life? You’re Not Alone

All About Anal: Your Introduction to Anal Play and Anal Sex (Part II)

The orgasm gap: facts, figures, and why we need to talk about female pleasure.

All About Anal: Your Introduction to Anal Play and Anal Sex (Part I)

Gender vs. Sex: What’s The Difference?

Why Penetrative Sex Might Be Causing You Pain

Endometriosis Is Way More Common Than You Think

This International Women’s Day, We #ChooseToChallenge Pleasure Inequality

All about the vulva: What is it, where is it, and why it’s not the same as the vagina.

How To Spice It Up Without Turning Your Garage Into A Dungeon: A Simple Woman’s Guide

Valentine’s Day Ideas for Singles, Couples, and the Socially Distanced

Dating during quarantine: 10 tips for socially distanced dates

Never Had Penetrative Sex Before? Read This.